Santa Brought More to Dad’s House

Yes, it is true.  I got the report during my “goodnight” phone call, and the words caught me off guard.  All I could say was “Oh…”  Drat!  I hate it when I’m left speechless by a six year-old!

I hung up the phone and realized this discrepancy was likely to spawn a series of questions.  I thought long and hard, and came up with a strategy…

Sure enough, the topic reared its ugly head again today.  My daughter and I had a very candid talk about the fact that Santa watches the kids all year, but also watches the parents.  Santa clearly has watched me struggle with too much “stuff,” and my ongoing attempts to get organized.  Instead of bringing in a ton of new stuff, he brought some gifts that will help yield new things…  Creativity (Crayola Color Explosion Glow Board), art projects (which are a gift to me!) (Bendaroos), and together time (Space Scooter Snowboard).

Guess what?  My line of reasoning was accepted with enthusiasm, and I feel better.  It isn’t a competition, and I’m actually a little miffed at myself for feeling uneasy about it for even a moment.  :-)

Splitting Holidays… What about Santa?

One of the hardest adjustments to being a single parent is coordinating your schedule with the proper authorities – Santa, the Easter Bunny, etc.

Last night was the night that St. Nick was supposed to come. My kids are at their Dad’s house right now, so I had to plan accordingly.

Our visit with Santa, 2006

Our visit with Santa, 2006

I have great news for single parents who have not yet encountered this dilemma. Thanks to technology, and the unfortunately high rate of divorce, every holiday character I have dealt with has been very flexible and accepting of our situation.

Each time my kids aren’t going to be with me on the traditional eve of ‘s visit, I contact the entity ahead of time via telephone or email. Just last week, I contacted St. Nick (via email) and explained our situation. He was perfectly willing to make his stop at my house the night before his regularly scheduled visit. Santa and the Easter Bunny have also both been very accommodating.

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